Strengthen Your Relationship or Marriage
Our program for romantic relationship enrichment is unique in how it creates deep, personally meaningful couple change.
This course is more than just a course or class or workshop.
It’s more than a one-size-fits-all program.
It’s based on the science of love and years of experience in helping couples.
You will strengthen your relationship since our program is tailored to fit the place you get stuck in your relationship, by giving you the tools you need to meet and achieve your goals.
Your relationship course is presented by highly trained relationship experts in the field of marriage and family therapy or psychology. Our experts are trained by world class trainers on healing, strengthening and transforming couples relationships, such as Dr. Sue Johnson, Dr. Scott R. Woolley, Dr. Rebecca Jorgensen, Dr. Lisa Palmer-Olsen, Dr. Mark Kaupp and Lisa Ruderman, LMFT. Your program will be lead by some of the best program leaders available in San Diego.
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How is this program unique?
After attending a marriage program based on this new science of love couples report that they have hope for lasting love, their spirits are renewed, they have tools they never imagined having and a process to solve problems together and stay on the same team. In essence, their relationship has grown in tangible ways with increased trust, confidence and commitment.
The Alliant Couple and Family Clinic offers the Hold Me Tight Relationship Enrichment Program in two formats, weekly for 8 weeks or in a retreat/weekend style. Either way you will find this program unique and powerful. It is powerful because you will experience:
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Dedicated Time and Focus Time spent away from every day activity and stress to prioritize you and your relationship. Having time and focus, under expert guidance, allows you to develop clarity. This clarity provides the structure for change to emerge in a strong and healing way. Whether you attend this program in the weekly or retreat format our intensive and focused approach supports rapid and profound improvement. |
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Get Tools To Talk and Practice Doing It Many workshop give couples talking tools, just as “active listening” , a great approach that is proven not to work when touchy topics are brought up. What couples really need are new and different tools, tools that work when we are triggered about hot topics. Our emphasis is for you to learn a powerful approach and tools to make deep and positive change. You will get effective results through the program and from our program guides. You will be given take home tools you can keep using to stay strong and united and growing together long after your program has completed. |
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A Scientifically Based Approach Having helped hundreds of therapists learn to save relationships, this approach provides advanced communication skills, the type you would get out of very expensive the effective couple therapy. Our program provides a significant and proven approach to effective problem solving. The type and quality of tools you will get are proven effective and something you would only get from the most highly trained couples therapists. |
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Result Oriented and Practical Before piloting this relationship program, our team of trainers spent years working with couples to create lasting change. As highly regarded professionals in the field, and as professional educators, our team worked to help establish this program based on the best science and practice available. You have the benefit of this expertise which means you get real results, real change and real effectiveness. You get the best, newest and most successful relationship science based on couple therapy research and neurobiology. |
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A Highly Effective Format — Choose from two powerful formats for your program based on what works for your schedule, budget and lifestyle. The program comes in a weekly evening format or a retreat style, get-away format. Chose the one that suits your money and time budget the best. Either way you get the opportunity to make a profound impact and positive change to your relationship with expert guides and cutting edge material. |
Your participation in this workshop will be met with a high amount of support, respect and responsiveness to the needs your have as a couple.
With this support you can make progress and be amazed by your improved understanding and ability to meet your relationship goals.
This program is unique in knowing how to determine your individual and couple strengths. You will learn what your love style is and how to use your style to strengthen your relationship. Programs that are not based on the science of love don’t know how to personalize this important information so the very unique points of distress that could be hurting you and your relationship can be turned around and utilized as a strength.
Of course, each of us are unique and each relationship has it’s own struggles. Our program has been developed specifically to work with you in an individualized way, this means you can have significant and personal help.
This program spans over 25-years of research helping couples that includes finding a way to help you master a new way of communicating your hurt, fears, love and desires to your partner. No gimmicks, just solid techniques that will allow you to manage your relationship wants and unmet needs.
Our program leaders know how to help you understand and effectively work with your very unique relationship style and differences. Along with how your personal love style interacts with your partners.
This program has helped hundreds of couples develop effective communication and change problematic patterns that interfere with lasting love and the development of relational security and happiness.
Our program is new, innovative and up-to-date. It is based on the most current research on what makes relationships satisfied, honest and secure.
The Alliant Couple and Family Clinic’s onsite Romantic Relationship Program is co-sponsored by the Training and Research Institute for Emotionally Focused Therapy, which means our program tracks and includes the latest research in the fields of lasting change, brain science and love styles. These fields are essential to understanding what makes love work, what makes it dangerous and hurtful and what each person needs to know to have a successful love relationship.
In this program you experience the change that happens with effective relationship strategies are applied to love in real time. The Alliant Couple and Family Clinic has a reputation for providing excellent, cutting edge techniques, skills and effective help. The program is often attended by psychologists and other types of relationship helpers who want to experience this approach for themselves and the benefits of it for their own relationships.
The program format, combined with our program leaders’ specialized training and education provides you the opportunity to strengthen the foundation of your relationship in a lasting and effective way. It’s an experience meant to give you skills and the ability to stay securely connected for your lifetime.
Frequently Asked Questions
What types of couples benefit from this program? Do we have to be married? Does our relationship have to be in crises?
Our program benefits couples of all types and in a variety of relationship stages. It doesn’t matter is you are married, living together, committed or considering commitment.
Couple find this program helpful in increasing understanding, communication, having a deeper sense of connection and working through even repeating relational problems.
Your relationship can be newly developing and you want to be sure it lasts, or you may want to determine if you are really right for each other.
You can be in a long term relationship and want to take of some old nagging issues or revitalize it so you have the feeling of being back in love in.
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About Your ManualHold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Loveis the manual our program is based on. It offers a revolutionary new way to see and shape love relationships. It is filled with stories, new ideas and exercises based on the new science of love and the wisdom of Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy. The outstanding success rate of this approach has been heralded in scientific journals, the New York Times and Time magazine. Dr. Sue Johnson shows how couples how to create a safe emotional bond that can last a lifetime.
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